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Wednesday, November 30, 2005 ( @ 11:38 PM ) tourism option,i hereby affirm that im putting that down as my number 1 option. olando,i see you in 2yrs' time. yes,the prodigious desire that's already burning in me. i wanna undertake that attachment. pls,that wholesome sensation is sending my andrenalines all over. dreams that i hold have elevated. im visualizing my heyday. and i'll endeavour towards. 0 comments Sunday, November 27, 2005 ( @ 9:20 PM ) hates working brunch. it just makes me miss spending time with my family. but still,those chefs never fail to brighten my sundays up with food.hehs. joanne's such a glutton.nothing new though. to live up to my nick,i ate a whole load of shits for dinner-stingray,carrot cake,chicken cutlet,ban mian.right!i mean,a lil' of everything.pls.i need to be barred from hawker centre where there's always so much variety of food.sheesh.fats.boo hoo. pls dont say i grew fatter.i cant bear to hear that.but,hah!i wont give a hoot even if you were to say so,for "i live to eat" & not "i eat to live".my dearest devils,remember that?words which came from our dearest fam tong siang?"class,do you live to eat or eat to live?" hah!i certainly remember vividly him saying "no,i eat to live".oh right. i just miss those shits that the class shared with fam.our famism. all that which seemed to have only took place yesterday. mans. and looking at my dad & mum,i suddenly realised that they've really aged. pretty much. and seriously,i dont know when ever i will wake up realizing that they've left me. that thought pretty much sends shivers down my spine. pls people,spend time with your folks. treasure your loved ones alrites. 0 comments ( @ 9:05 PM ) awesome's the word. sizzled. those dancers truly lived up to the salsa world. salsa attitude. how right. plus the exotic dance. my!sensational.real professional. it really sent my hormones rushing.oh yea. a wholesome thanks to lovely gary =) that guy's oh so sweet. and no my sexy lady,im not falling in love with him. im just falling too deep for dance. and i know you are! haha!in case,you know.xD maybe i will leave him to you?or no,or shall i say i be on the look out for hotter ones? with dimple as deep & eyes as seductive?lovely. begs.dance together ey?hehs. and next week will be our chance to rock the town. tune to the music & be swept off my dears. 0 comments Friday, November 25, 2005 ( @ 10:22 AM ) ideas of ponning tutorials are gashing through our heads in unison. what a 07'. unison in all. eat & slacks make us up. 0 comments Thursday, November 24, 2005 ( @ 9:34 PM ) im sorry i didnt know so much been toiling upon your shoulders. dont fret my dear,nothing shall bring you down alrites. for all you may know,this could just be a test god wants to put you through. treat it as a bump along the course of life, that bump though will cause you injuries, you know you'd grow tougher. for all the times thats you've been there to lend me a shoulder & ear, i will be there for you too. not just to repay you,but that's what friends are for right =) smile & dont lose it. 0 comments Wednesday, November 23, 2005 ( @ 6:41 PM ) -right guy,right relationship,right time..bla bla. when's RIGHT & how do you know that it's really right? for more i often,i guess it's the present intuition that we follow rather than being knowing it's really right. there's no RIGHT or wrong,the RIGHT thing is just a moment that stikes just like when the iron's hot.many women will just go biatching "i knew it is it!it is him!it is us!" but goes on sorrowing "i guess i was wrong then" few months later.so often,our assumed "right" turns out to be so wrong.but i guess,life's short & everything's worth giving it their try.If we keep waiting for the really right stuff,prehaps we'd have missed out the REAL right moments then that have long slipped past our hands. the RIGHTS seldom go into our future,prehaps they belong to the present moments. missus. 0 comments ( @ 5:42 PM ) why aint the rain stopping & when's the big holy sun coming from behind the clouds? i need vitamins D pls. the weather been chilling & it'd just made me realised what a weakling joanne is! a darn bitch who looked so tough on the extorior(so much so for being lablled as a she-him!gays!oh pls.lol),i have been hiding behind my long sleeves & jackets!shesh.and i cant bath properly or rather,ass shits!wanted to go round the neightbourhood jogging while the lousier side of me deciding that i'd freeze to death should i do so.how rights.!and the better me slept the late noon off after completing my series 4 of sex & the city.yes,that show keeps me grooving. 0 comments Sunday, November 20, 2005 ( @ 8:12 PM ) "Home alone and dead but nobody knows-or bothers." mans.what the hell is getting wrong with the society in coming years? dont you people care bout' your folks back at the house where you'd used to run around naked when still a toddler? okay,fine if those folks had no children but i mean,isnt it scary & most pitiful to die alone without being realised that you're gone from the world till your body decides to rot & stink? dont say that joanne's making a big fuss out of no shit pls. pls,do get married or even not,make sure you have someone who'd be there for you when you grow old.admit the fact that you wont be as tough then as you are.if you get married,do give birth,if not,dont leave your spouse in the aging home while you rot in your own apartment.For there's this folk who died in the house alone since his wife was left at the aging home & they didnt had kids. oh wells. 0 comments ( @ 12:11 AM ) but i feel really good. hahs! i know this is contradicting. but yea. WAS shagged & restless whilst doing my dinner shift but not after being complimented by my customer =) smiles. couple(husband):"hi!erm,you're a waitress here right?" me:"yes sir!"(i was thinking like duh!!) H:"oh!your name pls?" me:"im joanne."(shit!what the hell did i do wrong?complains!?sheesh) H:"ok.good,joanne.nice meeting you.but you've been providing really good service!can we actually request to be sitted at the section that you'd be in charged of?" me:"of course sir!(smiling)i be most happy to be at your service!no worries,i be taking care of your table next time you guys come!(smile & more smile) that was a extract of the conversation. my.im really glad can.so much appreciated.=) i guess these are the lil' things that make me more willing to be serving at my utmost best. and im really tired now. 0 comments Friday, November 18, 2005 ( @ 11:29 PM ) how true is that?hahs! seriously,how many of you remember your boyfriend's car plate? or rather,do you even notice if they did some changes to their vehicle? man.or do you even know what colour or the brand of vehicle are you sitting in? but men oh men!you cant just throw that statement over onto us just like that! do you guys know what brand of clothings your girls wear? or,do you even notice that they have changed their hairstyle?! i mean,i really dont understand why guys can keep complimenting the beautiful outfits other ladies wear in front of their girlfriends yet never bother telling that "hey dearie,you look prettier wearing this today".mans! hell.cant you guys appreciate the effort your girls put in when going on a date with you!?the hassle & fussle gone through.pls. 0 comments Wednesday, November 16, 2005 ( @ 9:19 PM ) especially on days when the rain taps against the window =) he & his "sugar mommies". i hate my big baby. but he makes me adore him so. 0 comments Sunday, November 13, 2005 ( @ 2:01 AM ) hahs! nice saturday i had. just back an hr ago from the supper with chefs. joanne was back to good health when she woke up. how nice =) *thumbs up. split was great with kenny y.2more split sat to go. yeaps. break time with the male crew was cranky. pls.though my dear masa is gay.mans! something i admire bout single guys-they get to work round the world with no worries. europe,USA,germany,on board british & US cruises.you name them. listening to him telling us on his past job experiences,it will spurred me on. somehow or rather,it did turned me off too. to abandon everything you have back in your own home & work aboard aint easy feat. you need more than your wits. independency & courage.the ability to withstand loneliness & the discrimination you get from citizens of other countries. it really aint as simple as what portrayed. but the experience is definitly much more enriched as compared to working in your hometown. you are really thrown out into the society & fully exposed to the harshness of the world. we're all still too sheltered in singapore. our hardship aint real hardships. so.pls stop complaining my fellow mates. imagine being thrown on a land with no close ones by your side,having to survive only on water during the last few days or week before your paycheck day.Having no one to take pity on you & to lend you pennies for food. but those are the lil' things accumulated that bring the toughest character of you out. but one real funny stuff is the showing off of masa's ex-colleague who always claimed that his dick's BIG till one day a prostitute actually said "my god!this is the smallest dick i have ever come across!" pls,ASIAN guys out there,dont ever claim that your dick is big even though yours may appear to be the bigger ones among those around you.ang mos' & the blacks still have the BIGGER ones.no joke.so pls,dont try to show off your self-proclaimed "big dick". *laughs. ladies,do you wanna your future man to have a wallet full of cash or one that's filled with all the different credit cards that are available in the market?i'd definitly dont wanna one who's got the cards but no cash on hand.so what if you've showed me all the darn cards you have when you stinge on cents.credit cards are libilities as named.so owing whole lot of cards is just telling me that you have a whole load of liability.yes.so men,pls stop showing off your cards & expect us women to ogle over you.but on the contrary,women out there,pls wake up the darn idea that "my man is rich cos he can afford to sign with his different credit cards each time we visit a restaurant."the ability to sign doesnt equal to the ability to repay those heafty amount of loan incurred the the end of the month.so does that narrow down to women who had initialled the ideal "5C"?and so is it women to be blamed for coming up with all these "ideal lifestyle" kind of perspective? perspective being persective,individuals live up to their own kind of perspective.but aint perspective created based on the kind of so-called "perspection" we see in the society we live in?what exactly is the real kind of perspective or are we all just following each other's perspective based on what we see & hear around us?so does that equal to us holding on to the same perspective? 0 comments Friday, November 11, 2005 ( @ 11:57 PM ) flu hit followed by the rising of temperature. almost died in school. not really though. but yea.the hot cold hot cold thing isnt doing any good to me. terr was sweet enough to ask bout me. my boy was nice to come& fetch me back. took medicine & rotted at his place. got better & so shall i go ahead with my split shifts tomorrow. joanne needs more money pls. new hp.more clothings.perfumes.christmas presents. gosh. whenever will i get to see my 1st k again? my thumbdrive,like finally got that darn tech thing. thanks to dylan who went went online to search for good deals & making the effort to go & get it for me.68 buck for a 512mb.good deal?coupled with 3yrs warranty. =) had lunch at FC 1 like for the first ever time since i entered SP. mans.there's definitly more guys to ogle at over there. FC 6 is flooded with ladies pls. FC 1 is definitly more appealing. hahs! and the guys there seem more man too lar. he gets me high & low. how i wish i'd strangle him to death. 0 comments Saturday, November 05, 2005 ( @ 12:48 AM ) come to think of it,women been complaining in recent years & yearn for status equality. BUT,why do women still take it as a must for men to pay on their dates?why do women demand that men have all the Cs in the world when some of the latter may not have any of the C?think people,is this equality?if women fight for their so-call rights in the society,why do they still hold on to those conservative thoughts?holy.i bet my gays are nodding their heads off ey. =) im not siding the men though.but im trying to look at things from their perspective.women on earth,practise equality before you even ask for it. men & women.the vast differences that can never reach a balance point.looks-men want their girlfriends to be the prettiest & sweetest shit on earth while women want their men to be the hottest hunk.goddness.pls.there's no ugly men or women on earth.it's a matter of if they are willing to spend the time & effort to doll themselves up.com' on.can we reach a agreement somewhere along the line of "why bother dressing up so nice" & "i think i my clothes doesnt really match,i need more shopping."?people are never contented & this is a well darn fact.guys want passers-by to ogle at their girls yet farking hell complain at the long amount of waiting time. human beings are contradicting.people are always saying that beauty doesnt lie only on the surface.but com' on!how many are actually practising what they preach?the world is harsh.but who made the reality a cruel one?it's human beings themselves.who are the ones setting the rules & yet breaking them all?stating down what they never really meant.there's always the contrast. and sometimes i wonder bout' the relationship we hold on to. is it for real? my thoughts tend to linger. i need more pls. more assurance i guess. 0 comments Thursday, November 03, 2005 ( @ 1:56 PM ) The dictionary defines infatuation as the state of being blindly in love? You are blind to the faults of the other person. You think that he/she is just perfect. Other people can see plenty of faults, but you don't see them. You don't want to see them. Others may point out some of the faults to you, but you ignore them because you are lindly in love? How do infatuations start? If I have feelings of love for someone, will I always have those feelings? What are the dangers of romantic infatuation? How do infatuations end? How can I tell if my love is real or just a romantic infatuation? Lets consider these important questions. Infatuations start fast Romantic infatuations usually start fast. A guy sees a girl and he is attracted to her. He looks at her and smiles. Their eyes meet and lock. She gives a shy smile and looks away. But the message has gotten through, she is interested to him. It is a wonderful feeling to know that someone of the opposite sex is interested in you. The romantic begins to blossom. It builds up as it goes. Each is enjoying the feeling of being attractive to someone of the opposite sex. The feeling of being in love and the feeling that someone loves you are wonderful feelings. The guy and the girl may not know each other very well at all, but before long, each is saying, I've never felt like this before. I must be in love! Is this real love? No, the person has not fallen in love with the other person. He/She has fallen in love with the wonderful feeling of love. If I have feelings of love for someone, will I always have those feelings? The answer is NO, Feelings of love are feelings, and feelings go up and feelings come down. They are never permanent. Our feelings follow cycles. We have highs and we have lows. You may be on a high today, but a few days later, you may hit a low. There is really no reason for it, but you just hit bottom. Before long, your feelings change, and once more you on top again. Some people have higher highs than others and some have lower lows. Some manage to stay on the mountain top longer than others, but feelings are never permanent. They change constantly. The feelings you have when you are involved with a romantic infatuation are wonderful, but they are feelings, and feelings will change. What are the dangers of a romantic infatuation? There are two big mistakes you can make when you are infatuated. Mistake # 1 is getting involved sexually. One day those wonderful romantic feelings will be gone and you will wonder what happened to your perfect romance. Then will come the sad part of breaking up. Breaking up is always painful but, when you have been involved sexually, its ten times worse. Teens by the multiplied thousands will till you, I wish we had not gotten involved sexually. That made it so much worse when we broke up. Mistake # 2 is rushing into a premature marriage. Marriage is serious business. Its not all moonlight, romance and roses. Its daylight, diapers and dishes! One day the romantic feelings will hit bottom. He is worried about his job and how he is going to pay all those bills. She is been up half the night with a sick baby. He looks at her and says, I don't think I love you any more. She says, I don't love you any more either. They head for the divorce court with all the heartbreak involved. The fact is that they never had real love for each other. It was only romantic infatuation. How do infatuations end? Infatuations end like they began-fast. They don't last long. They are like a ride on a roller coaster. It is fun and thrills while it lasts, but it soon comes to an end. How can I know if my love is real or just an infatuation? It is NOT easy to tell if love is real or just an infatuation. In real love, you want to be with the one you love. The same is true of an infatuation. In real love you may get funny feelings when you think about that person or talk to him or her. The same is true of infatuation. In real love there is a physical attraction to the one you love. The same is true of an infatuation. But there are differences. Infatuations start fast, but real love usually starts slow. Often it is just a friendship at first. You enjoy being together. But the friendship grows, and one day you discover that you truly love each other. Infatuation is blind. You cannot see the other person's faults because you are blindly in love. But real love is not blind. You see the person's faults, but you love that person, faults and all. Infatuation is all in the feelings, but real love is more than a beautiful feelings. Anybody can say, I love you, but real love is more than just words,it is a commitment. A commitment is a choice which is backed up with actions. At times you may have wonderful romantic feelings, and at other times you don't have them. But your love for that person is unchanged because you are committed to him or her. Young people ask, How can you hold on to love? Why is it so hard to keep? In most cases, the reason it is hard to keep is that it is not real love. Usually it is just a passing infatuation. You may be involved in four or five infatuations as you go through high school. Each time you may think, This is it! At last I've found the right person! But later it turns out to be passing infatuation. The best way to find out if your love is real is to give it time. Real love will survive the test of time. Infatuations won't - they fizzle out. Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, gave us some good advice. He said, Keep your heart with all diligence.Concerning romantic matters, this means guard your affections. Don't go bananas over someone. Keep it cool. You do not have to be blindly in love.You do not have to be so carried away with an infatuation that you do foolish things. You can use good sense in deciding that you do not want to become involved with someone who is not good for you. You don't have to fall in love. Its fine to seek friendships with those of the opposite sex, but don't get physical and don't be in a hurry. You may really like that person, but guard your affections. Friends don't break up, but lovers do. And when they do, there is a lot of hurt and regrets. You can send back the pictures. You can send back the gifts. But you cannot send back the hurt and the regrets. To summarize : Romantic infatuation is the great deceiver that fools so many people. The feelings you have when you are involved in a romantic infatuation are wonderful, but they will not last. You may really like someone, but guard your affections. Stay cool ~ 0 comments Tuesday, November 01, 2005 ( @ 10:56 PM ) it turns out to be some pure misunderstanding. hehs.=) joanne is a happy girl again. people,pls,if ever there were to be any doubts between you & anybody else,TALK IT OUT! dont think on your own & start letting your mind go hay-wire. alrites? buddies to the end.yeaps. headed to brewerks with my dearest =) dinner was good. had some BBQ chicken combo & some beef stuff. yums.but too filling for both of us. coupled with drinks from their brewery. *thumbs up! had 3 shooters of the brew master's sample-hopback ale,xtra ipa & moh gui. plus another pint of golden ale & india pale ale each. great drink.=) golden ale is delicious pls. oh yea. happy deepavali to the hindis =) is that how i spell? 0 comments |